You did it! You have found your special someone and now you are ready to pop one of the biggest questions of your life…. There is a lot to consider when planning how and where you will make it happen. Will you go big and showy or quiet and intimate?
KNOW THE ANSWER BEFORE YOU ASK THE QUESTION
In most cases, couples have had discussions about their future together. If this has not happened, how can you be completely certain you are making the right move? It is a big question, having the security and confidence in a positive outcome is the best.
TRADITION AND THE PARENTS
Do you approach the parents first before asking the question? Different cultures will have different traditions in this regard. However, once the proposal has been accepted, you should call or visit both sets of parents before putting your news on social media.
MAKING THE PROPOSAL MEMORABLE
Planning what you’re going to say ahead of time is important. Focus on telling them why you want to spend the rest of your life with them. It is easy to say, “because you are kind and caring”. Being specific about certain times you’ve shared together, or deeds quietly observed will make the proposal even more memorable. Guaranteed to bring a tear or two…
PLANNING THE VENUE
Romance can mean different things to different couples. Attending a large sporting or concert event (hopefully soon), taking a challenging hike, or an intimate dinner can be considered very romantic. If your intention is to return to the location each anniversary or years later, choosing the setting will be crucial. If you’re not sure what your partner would prefer, ask a friend or family member (one you can count on to not spill the beans). Researching places on social media to see their response may also work.
THE IMPORTANCE OF PRESENTING AN ENGAGEMENT RING
Giving a ring once you’ve asked the question will be anticipated. The engagement ring has been the symbol of love and intention since ancient times, something for your beloved to wear showing all they are betrothed.
NOTE: When you are planning the location, think about how you will securely carry the ring. A beach at sunset is very romantic however you can be guaranteed nerves will be involved in the moment. Dropping the ring in the water or sandy shore has been done…. many many times.
There is no right or wrong way to propose, just make sure
IT COMES FROM THE HEART!